When u stop reacting u are forced to move forward from the inside
and thus u will have to bring forward what is inside.
This is the true esoteric meaning of love thy enemy.
This is not the love from the emotional heart but from the soul heart, from the centre. And it is not about forgiveness in the sense of forgetting, cause when we forget we repeat the cycle of abuse. This love is not to be confused with forgiveness for only the Father can grant this. On the cross the Last thing Jesus said was: FATHER forgive them… We must never forget; only by remembering we cancel the debt. If u forget you repeat.
Here I am explaining more of the new true law: love. in my last blog I explained the part: love thyself, in the context of love thy neighbour as thyself, which is integral and the ground work to the level of non-local Love briefly explained here.
Unconditional (Non-local) Love
Unconditional love is not forgiving the other, because only the Father can forgive and we ourselves cause as we know now the shadow will bring down the deceiver/abuser in us and the shadow is inside us. and thus it is with our shadow we need to make good, and the Father. It should be made clear that at this level when it regards past trauma (sorrow) work, the focus is not on the past perpetuator nor present trigger but on the pain and parts of me i have cut off and which are re-triggered.
There are layers to innerstanding true love. The first stages are where we realise that what is coming up in me is not determined by the trigger but “corresponds” with it, because what is in me is in me and will come up. The trigger is the mirror. This inner gaze and attention on what is happening in me already puts us deep in the intrinsic levels of brain and self. In that sense when we get back outside-in from inside-out we focus on the feelings being triggered not the trigger and thus even thank the trigger for bringing up what parts of me I need to rekindle. Everything is recycled. True mental sustainability and clean energy. When we connect really to our inwardness nothing is used anymore as an excuse to fully become who and what we are. All is now aiding me in mining out the true gold…the true oil…
The next layer of unconditional love meant with here with love thy enemy is really a state of invisibility found at the core in real martial art, and all other spiritual traditions for that matter. It is precognitive and leads to going ever deeper in self/heart to a part of self Jung said was beyond space time and acausal/non-local. At the core of self we find the spiritual quantum core which is not anymore bound to not even the spacio temporal material world, let alone the flaming arrows shot at us. At this inner core we change time and space. everything entering our orbit agrees with us…
I Am the Drug
Love thy enemy versus love those who love u is like drug. The more we attach to the (drug) outside the less the inside produces it from within. Every time we need more to get less good feeling. To the point where inside is barren and outside full. This external way is effectively the digging of ourselves into a black hole. Taking more and more to get a small spark of light in an ever darkening hole.
This is the trap of the more we get outside the emptier we feel inside. While the less we depend on the outside the more on the inside the light shines bright and we take out really all of what and who we are inside. Toward the point where we least rely on and attach to the outside; which is when inside is mansions. This is the point we reach back to the heavenly Kingdom. The other way of the black whole is the way to the dark dimensions and vampires and dragons….leaches which live fully off of others.
Loving those who love us is even what the tax collectors do. That’s not real love but simply for reward. There’s no heavenly reward for that. But when outside is darkest, harshest, persecuting and cursing us (the enemy) that’s when the true light Self stands up and comes forward, therefore fear the attacks and curses and darkness no more. That’s when the true pure light shines brightest INSIDE. Therefore there’s no real reward in loving who loved u while heaven is the reward for those who love their enemy.
Deeper in2 Love
Shadow work, which could be seen as an inner act of love/compassion, is the first layer and takes us beyond split duality. This deeper love is much in line with the Buddhist concept of love and compassion which a state beyond prejudice and reaction (The Man Who Spit In Buddha’s Face).
What true love is, is not allowing the attacks to take us off centre (heart)…off beat. The deeper heart is the centre and also a beat. The centre is what will eventually bring out who we really are: the Self; regardless of how we’re treated or not. Unconditional love is the invincibility state of the Self/the centre which keeps beaming out this essence which is pure will.
This on the principle that we need to learn that the outside cannot determine, trigger or make us react. And so to mine true self or the gold from inside out. In reactive mode we are kept out of core or centre, out of heart or thus true love. True love is centre…is paradox and by virtue of this doesn’t hold grudges but doesn’t forget either. Which is why it can be itself regardless of conditions. When in central heart we know what is seen in us is not us…nor what we see in others… Than we lift up our true eyes and see that we are the hungry child, the dirty homeless, the battered wife… We see beyond projection…prejudice… we feel the pain of the one at who’s gun point we are.
Forced 2 Move forward from the Inside: Prime Mover
When u stop reacting u are forced to move forward from the inside and thus u will have to bring forward what is inside. This is the true esoteric meaning of love thy enemy. this is the love that never runs out…never fails, never gives up. The other love is personal and holds grudges and is conditional.
Not reacting forces you to become a self or real individual beyond adjusting to what is out there. Adjusting creates a false image. This is what unconditional love of love thy enemy really means. it means we are what we are (love) regardless of friend or foe. It goes back to Schopenhauer’s (pure) will as prime mover. if we truly stop reacting to circumstances and pro-act from deep within we get that we behave fully out of free will and thus out of only our own constraints (onbevangen) or totally free from inside…unprejudiced…precognitively or thus from the natural free zone.
For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye?
So the vision is that we radiate out Love or pure shadowless Light from centre/atom/heart regardless of what’s coming at us. Not only regardless but when we are being forced by an external black out to bring forward the inner light. Or thus because of the attacks and tricks, and challenges coming at us. Even seeing that we need the flaming arrows shot at us to learn how to be fully from within or invincible. Yes, there’s nothing against true love and light. there would be no other way to learn this. so even rivals, haters and enemies are thanked for aiding in training us in this. Cause the darker it becomes outside the brighter within shineth.
As Matthew 5:45 says, its easy to be nice with someone being nice to one. But thats not the invincibility of unconditionality or pure love. It has to be regardless of how we are being treated, which is really a way of saying it is coming pure from inside and thus is fully pure, uncontrived by the relativity of (external or internal) magnetic conditions. It aids us to ascend. The real thing is to be this to persons being evil to us and not good to us and treating us in ways we don’t even deserve. This is what the Kingdom of heaven is. This strong love.
This is why scripture says to not publish ur righteous works and not let others know ur works of charity etc etc., cause that is still all conditional: a tit for a tat. Its not pure from inside… not for something: a bribe or fear.
Deep into the Heart of it All: the Great I AM
All this is going to the idea of moving from deep inside in unconditioned flow. Where not only is what is coming at us not determining us but where we create the reality we journey. This is the only stance in which we transcend the victim/reactive “I” position. Conditioning is a form of mental programming and coming not from inner core. The reactive mind which is caught in causality and stimulus response, bribery, money, competition is in a prison.
But it is thus being true in the harshest challenges that we can really practice invisibility or unconditionality.
43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?
47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?
48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.